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What's True Love? |
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TRUE LOVE is an enduring intention (when having the ability) to do or wish (when not having |
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the ability) to see whatever BEST (done by the one who has the ability). |
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Spiritually we all are ONE and PERFECT as part of the UNIVERSE. Unfortunately once we were |
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born out of the mother's womb and become physically an individual we become IMPERFECT. |
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We have then practically "zero" Ability to love ourselves, if we could not breathe on our own as a |
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newly born baby. Consequently we have no choice, but only Need to be loved by others |
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practically 100% in order to servive. This Need-to-be-Loved will be proportionally diminished |
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conversely with the Ability-to-Love-ourselves that we have acquired naturally as we have grown |
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physically and socially. |
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The psychological aspect, one of the 3 (social, physical/biological, and psychological) of the |
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Individuality tends to fall behind and mostly get stuck during the childhood, instead of catching |
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up congruently with the physical/biological and social aspects that grow and mature steadily. |
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When fixated the psychological aspect manifests itself as the INCONGRUENT Need-To-Be- |
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Loved that result in childish behavior. Never-the-less, being an Imperfect Individuality as Self, |
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we will always have the Need-To-Be-Loved-By-Others that is "congruent" with the "social" and |
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"physical" needs. |
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A True Lover is psychologically liberated from the Need-To-Be-Loved of a child and carry on |
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with of only the Need-To-Be-Loved that is "congruent" with one's "imperfect" biological and |
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social aspects Individual Self. Therefore a True Lover always relates to the Loved Ones, either |
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Self or Others, with only Give or Take Whatever BEST. |
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Life is anything that can love itself. As long as it has the Ability to Love itself, it lives. To live |
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happily in all 3 aspects (namely socially, psychologically, and physically) of Your Life, you must |
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sustain the Ability to Love. |
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Center for Advancement of Ability to Love (CAAL) was established in 1981 by a psychiatrist |
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Dr. Thaworn Rathana-Nakintara, M.D. as the public service arm of the International Insiuute of |
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Preventive Psychiatry (IIPP), The first edition of "An Introduction to the Principles of True Love" |
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was published by IIPP in 1976. The Principles of True Love is his life long pursuit for more than |
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one half of the century. |
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Understanding the Principles of True Love, you will become a True Lover, spontabenously and |
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effortlessly. in the mean time you will acquire the characteristics of Honesty and Integrity. If you |
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are not a "Born True Lover", you must read "An Introduction to the Principles of True Love". |
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